Yet more #SMH moments...
We've been told my brother is one of Oklahoma's most chronic "mentally ill." I don't say that lightly.
Jeff's been on Social Security Disability Income (SSDI) since he was 21 years old. He's 49 now.
Jeff has never had a substance abuse problem. He does not use street drugs and never has.
He is disabled strictly due to "mental illness" issues.
He cannot hold a job.
Jeff's delusions are not "fixed" by the current medical model of "treatment"
(which is the forced-medication guessing game.)
This family (mostly our mother) has never been idle.
Mom has thirty years of records, documenting the tragic tale.
(photo: Mom Marilyn, Sister Jackie, and Jeff)
Jeff's been homeless half his adult life.
I don't know anyone that has lived a more difficult life.
Criminalized, yet he's not a criminal.
He's been raped and victimized.
He's been shot up with every imaginable RX, none of which have done anything except tranquilize or make his delusions "fixed" (ie, permanent).
I won't even get into the plethora of debilitating side-effects he endures.
That's a blog unto itself.
He's been scorned, mistreated, bullied & beaten
by people that should know better.
Over the decades, he's been starving, sunburned, shoeless, freezing, alone.
He has tried and tried to get away from the delusions in his head,
running from "himself," hitchiking coast to coast on foot, and on and on and on...
Still, Jeff maintains a good heart, exhibiting forgiveness, empathy, kindness.
He is amazing.
I feel like I'm describing Jesus on Good Friday...
except for being nailed to the cross.
#Pilate #Politics #PunishTheInnocent
THE WORLD HAS THROWN JEFF TO THE WOLVES
Oklahoma is where most of Jeff's family still lives. It is HOME to Jeff, and where he LONGS to BELONG. (I just realized how sad that sounds...but it is true. He lives there, yet he longs to belong, there.) How is it possible to be born, bred and live somewhere almost your entire life, and not feel like you belong? I'll tell you; because, in a city that prides itself in being "nice," Jeff is "invisible."
There's a big difference between in being "nice" and being "kind" -
Kindness is rooted in love,
niceness is rooted in fear
Jeff's usual daily routine is: He gets up early, walks around downtown Tulsa, getting a meal, maybe taking the transit to an appointment somewhere... then walking back home, after dinner, laying his weary body down every night after a long, lonely, hard day. Jeff can't afford cable TV or a computer. Those are WAY too luxurious. There is no money for any "normal" creature comforts.
Can you imagine?
These are true examples of the life of one of Oklahoma's chronically mentally ill.
Yet, the "normal" I've just described isn't the half of what's currently going on.
The process has been harrowing, for Jeff,
and for those of us trying to navigate and improve such a failing system.
I've been calling it the "Monster Mountain" we are trying to move.
We are attempting the impossible.
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We've always been extremely grateful for subsidized housing options, he has utilized. Even though he's had over twenty addresses in the past four years, and our mom (who's in her 70's) has had to physically move him in out out of these apartments herself (sometimes up a flight of stairs), bottom line, there has been housing for him. Lifesaving housing. It's scary when Jeff has been homeless. The heartache has been eased by knowing that the Mental Health Association has a program that has given him a place to live. Meagre, yes...but when someone has never even owned a car - having a place to sleep and feel safe is a third-world issue that has a first-world solution. This is why I've been supporting MHA with charitable donations the past few years, "In Honor Of" Jeff. Without housing, Jeff's life would be in grave danger. It's been the answer to some most fervent prayers. But now...to be clear, MHA has no housing for Jeff, due to a federal HUD regulation on the definiteion of homeless. (see below). MHA is a private organization, but they get federal grant money. So, they abide by the HUD rule (law?). ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
For context: When Jeff was arrested in July 2016 due to a delusion not quelled by the forced medications the state was "treating" him with...the latest criminalization began. I've documented much of that in past blogs. It's been almost two years, and we are still dealing with the after effects of a system that punishes people for having a mental disability. #smh
Jeff was thrown in Tulsa County Jail for 111 days of solitary confinement before being sent to the Oklahoma Forensic Center in Vinita on Nov 14, 2016. He remained at OFC for over eleven months, then was sent back to jail in Tulsa to await trial, facing possible LIFE in prison, for trying to get away from more forced drugging. I won't repeat information I've written about previously, but Jeff continued to decline before and after the arrest. Now, even though we have accomplished what I was told was miraculous and is never done (ie, the charges being dropped) - it's still far from over.
We've recently learned that due to being in a facility (jail and/or a mental hospital/crisis facility) for over 90 days the disabled person loses eligibility for subsidized housing due to a federal HUD rule, which defines required homeless periods and criteria (see link):
https://www.hudexchange.info/resources/documents/notice-cpd-16-11-prioritizing-persons-experiencing-chronic-homelessness-and-other-vulnerable-homeless-persons-in-psh.pdf
FROM PAGE 5:
D. Key Terms
1. Housing First. A model of housing assistance that prioritizes rapid placement and stabilization in permanent housing that does not have service participation requirements or preconditions for entry (such as sobriety or a minimum income threshold). HUD encourages all recipients of CoC Program-funded PSH to follow a Housing First approach to the maximum extent practicable.
2. Chronically Homeless. The definition of “chronically homeless”, as stated in Definition of Chronically Homeless final rule is:
- (a) A “homeless individual with a disability,” as defined in section 401(9) of the McKinney-Vento Homeless Assistance Act (42 U.S.C. 11360(9)), who:
- lives in a place not meant for human habitation, a safe haven, or in an emergency shelter; and
- Has been homeless and living as described in paragraph (a)(i) continuously for at least 12 months or on at least four separate occasions in the last 3 years, as long as the combined occasions equal at least 12 months and each break in homelessness separating the occasions included at least 7 consecutive nights of not living as described in paragraph (a)(i). Stays in institutional care facilities for fewer than 90 days will not constitute as a break in homelessness, but rather such stays are included in the 12-month total, as long as the individual was living or residing in a place not meant for human habitation, a safe haven, or an emergency shelter immediately before entering an institutional care facility;
- (b) An individual who has been residing in an institutional care facility, including a jail, substance abuse or mental health treatment facility, hospital, or other similar facility, for fewer than 90 days and met all of the criteria in paragraph (a) of this definition, before entering the facility;
- (c) A family with an adult head of household (or if there is no adult in the family, a minor head of household) who meets all of the criteria in paragraph (a) or (b) of this definition (as described in Section I.D.2.(a) of this Notice), including a family whose composition has fluctuated while the head of household has been homeless.
The shocking issue du jour, is -
Jeff is no longer eligible for subsidized housing!
You heard me right. No SHELTER for Jeff
because he was in jail for more than 90 days. #SMH!!!!!!!!
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If you're not aware,
there are no long term psychiatric hospitals any more. Anywhere.
None.
They went the way of good intentions and the Community Mental Health Centers.
That's fine, until you realize that the statistics on mental illness are rising in this country.
The statistics are also rising on the numbers of mentally ill on Social Security Disability Income ($$).
It's a VERY EXPENSIVE problem to be wearing blinders about, Joe Public.
AND... it gets more expensive (on many levels) with the jails being the new "psych hospitals."
#ShameOnUs
Suffering people with mental illness issues should NOT be in jail. This is so backward I can't even find the right words. And no "mental wing" at a JAIL is going to be able to take care of the delicate needs of those with psychiatric issues. Quite the opposite, actually. Why do we allow this? It's a waste of tax dollars and solves nothing for the mentally ill. This will only create more of the same.
SMH!
it's hard to believe
so many people
DO NOT
have their most basic human needs met.
..... Air (Breathing)
..... Water
..... Food
..... Sleep
..... Clothing
..... SHELTER ....................................
It screams #obvious that human beings need #shelter ... a place to call #home.
"A society should be judged not by how it treats its outstanding citizens, but by how it treats its criminals."
~Fyodor Dostoevsky
Again, the mentally ill are not criminals. They should not be in jail.
And when they are arrested due to their disability,
HUD should not punish them further
by taking away their RIGHT TO BASIC SHELTER!
I am FUMING about this!!!
LEGISLATORS??!!!!! IS THIS ACCEPTABLE TO YOU?
If it is, then maybe you should RETHINK your position.
Please -
Imagine a more human and better future.
And moreso, MAKE the CHANGE
to literally save the life of my brother and those like him.
Imagine a more human and better future.
And moreso, MAKE the CHANGE
to literally save the life of my brother and those like him.
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There is another sky,
Ever serene and fair,
And there is another sunshine,
Though it be darkness there;
Never mind faded forests, Austin,
Never mind silent fields -
Here is a little forest,
Whose leaf is ever green;
Here is a brighter garden,
Where not a frost has been;
In its unfading flowers
I hear the bright bee hum:
Prithee, my brother,
Into my garden come!
- Jackie Welton DiPillo
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