Monday, September 11, 2017

Solitary FOR REAL


As hurricane Irma was downgraded to a 6o mph swirling tropical storm, blowing through the Atlanta area (where I currently reside), I was hunkered down in my house, working on records and evidence needed to hopefully procure legal representation for my brother, who’s been at the Oklahoma Forensic Center (OFC) in lovely Vinita, OK, since November 14, 2016 - awaiting competency for trial. 
I felt cooped up in my house, having battened down the hatches, gotten flashlights/batteries and candles at the ready, and having all devices fully charged in case of a power outage. 
When I have to spend most of my day working at this computer and copier, with mounds of paperwork, I usually step outside and trim a bush, or pull some weeds, or lie in the hammock and decompress for a few minutes, staring at the sky, and just …breathing.  Because I have that option.  I need those breaks to keep my head clear, and my heart from aching too much. 
Today I realized, even though I was feeling “trapped” in my house, head buried in ink cartridges and binders and flash-drives and sticky notes, I’m not for “real,” trapped.  For REAL trapped is what my dear brother had to endure for one hundred and eleven days last year.  That’s right: 111.  Over three and a half months in SECLUSION at David L. Moss, Tulsa County Jail, prior to being deemed incompetent and being sent for a new bout of forced drugging at the OFC/Vinita. 
Anyone that grew up in Oklahoma knows “Vinita” as the place they send “those” people.  Tell me I’m wrong.  Because, I remember thinking it myself, and hearing others talk, as I grew up.  Vinita is a dirty word in Oklahoma.  And, my brother having been sent there several times since 1991, Vinita has changed, but not for the better.  OFC used to be called Eastern State Hospital (ESH).  But if you hadn’t heard, there are no long-term hospitals any more.  I get that, but now there’s JAIL, instead.  Lovely. 
More on that at a later date. 
ESH then became OFC, the “jail/hospital” where they send the “criminals”, either NGRI, or those they’re attempting to medicate into a state of enough wherewithal ONLY to answer the seven competency questions correctly, to “assist in their trial”.  The director of OFC told me, that their goal is not to “cure” these suffering souls.  Their goal - in the penal system, which OFC is - is to get those seven dastardly questions answered right, so they can be sent to more criminalization.  LOVELY.  But I digress... 
No, my feelings of being cooped up here working hard for a cause so monstrous and medieval, is NOTHING compared to the 111 days of SHEER TORTURE my brother, who has a label of mental illness, had to survive.  And survive it, he did.  He’s the strongest person I know.  111 days of solitary confinement, without being allowed a book to read, only a couple of hours each week seeing the outside of his private, enclosed cell.  Alone.  Detoxing cold-turkey off the neuroleptic drugs that had been force-injected over and over again in the months prior to his arrest.  An arrest that was during a delusional episode brought on my the Abilify our mother warned the facilities that Jeff could not tolerate, and told them of his past reaction to this specific drug, having been the scariest days of his life.  Abilify does NOT help my brother.  It destroys him.  It’s actually an opioid.  Wrap your head around that one, in a state with an opiod epidemic.  UGH. 
Abilify almost destroyed my mother, too, because Jeff’s former experience on this RX a decade ago, had him for the first time ever thinking he wanted to kill our mother.  Thank God Jeff escaped back then, to Massachusetts, because he loves our mother and his new thoughts frightened him.  So he left Oklahoma to get away from Abilify, and the thoughts it was giving him.  That’s also another story for another day. So so many stories. But in 2016, prior to his arrest on July 26, Mom told the facilities of these facts.  She begged them not to use this drug on him.  But she was ignored, as always.
Then today, as the news was reporting power outages across Atlanta, and as I was making calls and printing copies, something positive happened.  I got a call from someone I had left a message for last week.  A top attorney in New York City returned my call, and when I told him about our main issues, his response was swift:  “Solitary confinement is torture,” he asserted.  He went on to say it’s torture after just one or two hours, much less 111 DAYS!  And yes, he is going to see what he can do to help us.  It was so nice to hear someone that GETS IT…unlike the notebook full of attorneys I’ve called in Okahoma over these past 12 months, most who don’t think solitary confinement is like “getting beat up, or raped or killed”.  I was asked time and time again on those lawyer calls, “what would I have them pursue?”  WHAT?!  “Don’t you get it?” I would think…  “Are you not human?  What if it were YOUR brother?”  I had told every one of them about the articles I had read online about solitary confinement being WORSE THAN PHYSICAL abuse.  But no, these lawyers in Oklahoma that I checked off my list, were recommended, but none of them understood it the way the NYC top-notch attorney does.  This is a problem.  
My brother was held completely ALONE for over three months, while detoxing from forced chemical brain concoctions, making him more psychotic in the name of “treatment”.  After two months, the jailers tased him after these experiences created more psychosis. 
We have a great case.  And we are finally hopeful, because of folks like the lawyer I spoke with today, and another that called me last week.  And this one IS from Oklahoma.  FINALLY.  HOPE IS ALIVE! 
It will take the RIGHT team of lawyers to show all the others how wrong they were.  And the broken spirit and angry sister in me wonders how those lawyers in Oklahoma that didn’t think solitary is on the level of physical abuse, how THEY’D do being forced into a room, alone for 111 days?  Am I evil for wondering this?  The answer is, NO ONE would fare well.  EVERYONE would get worse.  But after segregation, the system THEN sent him to lovely Vinita, where he is to this day.  He is still being force medicated.  Nauseated every single day.  Filled with fear and anxiety like we cannot imagine.  But do me a favor, and try to imagine it.  Difficult as it is to think of, it will give you empathy, and that’s always a good thing.
We’re only human, as are all those attorneys that don’t get it.  But it’s time they understood…for humanity, for families, for their home state, which is on the verge of being the world’s bigger jailer.  Not good, Oklahoma.  A major mind-shift needs to happen.  And this story is just one, of many.  But THIS story will tell the tale and (we hope) will be a catalyst for MUCH NEEDED CHANGE.
So, my little pity party of being “alone” in MY HOUSE even for one day during a withering hurricane, having the freedom to work on this case for my beloved brother…shame on me. Jeff doesn't have that freedom. It’s my honor, and I will carry on.  My mom has been an example of fighting against all odds for her dear son for almost three decades, and my brother deserves no less from me.  So, this family now fights in solidarity.
Solitary confinement must end. There is no place in modern times for anyone to be tortured in this way, especially the fragile minds of those deemed “mentally ill.”  It’s inhumane and evil.  I mean, what year IS THIS??
So backward…  Let’s move forward, shall we?   


#ForJeff  #NeedNewKindOfHospital  #Mindshift  #SolitaryIsTorture
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